Off the top of my head I can think of 4 times in the bible that God is depicted as changing his mind:
- Genesis 18 in response to Abraham’s prayers
- Exodus 32 in response to Moses’ prayer
- Isaiah 38 in response to Hezekiah’s prayer
- Acts 27 in response to Paul’s prayer.
There are probably others which an AI search would extract but I haven’t gone down that road.
Someone in the local church we are members of here in Spain quite rightly pointed out that God, knowing the end from the beginning, couldn’t possibly change His mind. But as I have explained in another post there are three ways of looking at anything, all of which are true.
The main point I want to bring out about these incidents is the relationship purpose behind these apparent changes of mind of the almighty, all-knowing God.
By His nature God is always more interested in relationship with us than in being right about anything. He has nothing to prove in regard to being right. He is far more interested in what we are going through in our hearts as we relate to Him.
Abraham’s prayer for Lot.
When God told Abraham that he was going down to Sodom and Gomorrah, Abraham presumed that God was going to destroy the city.
16 Then the men rose from there and looked toward Sodom, and Abraham went with them to send them on the way. 17 And the Lord said, “Shall I hide from Abraham what I am doing, 18 since Abraham shall surely become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in him? 19 For I have known him, in order that he may command his children and his household after him, that they keep the way of the Lord, to do righteousness and justice, that the Lord may bring to Abraham what He has spoken to him.” 20 And the Lord said, “Because the outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah is great, and because their sin is very grave, 21 I will go down now and see whether they have done altogether according to the outcry against it that has come to Me; and if not, I will know.”
22 Then the men turned away from there and went toward Sodom, but Abraham still stood before the Lord. 23 And Abraham came near and said, “Would You also destroy the righteous with the wicked? 24 Suppose there were fifty righteous within the city; would You also destroy the place and not spare it for the fifty righteous that were in it? 25 Far be it from You to do such a thing as this, to slay the righteous with the wicked, so that the righteous should be as the wicked; far be it from You! Shall not the Judge of all the earth do right?”
26 So the Lord said, “If I find in Sodom fifty righteous within the city, then I will spare all the place for their sakes.”
27 Then Abraham answered and said, “Indeed now, I who am but dust and ashes have taken it upon myself to speak to the Lord: 28 Suppose there were five less than the fifty righteous; would You destroy all of the city for lack of five?”
So He said, “If I find there forty-five, I will not destroy it.”
29 And he spoke to Him yet again and said, “Suppose there should be forty found there?”
So He said, “I will not do it for the sake of forty.”
30 Then he said, “Let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak: Suppose thirty should be found there?”
So He said, “I will not do it if I find thirty there.”
31 And he said, “Indeed now, I have taken it upon myself to speak to the Lord: Suppose twenty should be found there?”
So He said, “I will not destroy it for the sake of twenty.”
32 Then he said, “Let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak but once more: Suppose ten should be found there?”
And He said, “I will not destroy it for the sake of ten.” 33 So the Lord went His way as soon as He had finished speaking with Abraham; and Abraham returned to his place.
(Genesis 18:16-33).
God acts as if he is compromising during Abraham’s transactions with Him (Genesis 18: 24-32). This is surprising enough. But there are other aspects of His behaviour that are just as confusing. As far as the timeline is concerned, God explicitly says he is going down to find out if what He has heard is true about Sodom and Gomorrah (v. 20-21). We all know that God is outside time so none of this makes sense from that point of view. Why go down to Sodom to find out something He already knew? One answer is in His desire to open up more about Himself to Abraham and ultimately, actually, to us. Another answer is that he wants to increase Abraham’s faith – and ours.
God is often depicted in Scripture as acting in a human way. This found its ultimate fulfilment in Jesus Christ – the Word became flesh (John 1:14). Loving us, he reaches out in ways we understand, so we can know Him better.
Abraham’s nephew Lot was in the city. God knew that and had made plans to save him (see Genesis 19). But Abraham doesn’t know this.
Abraham therefore pleads with God to save Lot. He pleads in a way that reflects his relationship with God at the time which was somewhat transactional, a bit distant and not completely straightforward.
We don’t know what God would have said if Abraham simply came out and asked for Lot, his wife and his daughters to be saved. It might have saved a lot of dialogue and heartbreak for Abraham if he had.
God saves Lot and his family but destroys the cities including Sodom. All Abraham sees is the smoke rising (see Genesis19:28) and presumes God hasn’t heard his real prayer. He gets discouraged, flees to the south and allows his wife Sarah to get into a compromising position with the king of the area (see chapter 20). Discouragement had brought him right back to an old sin (see Genesis 12:10-20).
It would seem Abraham at that time didn’t learn all the lessons God wanted him to learn about God’s faithfulness, foresight and love for those whom Abraham loved. Sometimes we analyse a situation one way and He seems to be doing things in a way we wouldn’t want. We have an opportunity to believe better of God at times like those.
There is no record in the Scripture that Abraham ever met up with Lot again. It is possible that he brought this discouragement with him into all the subsequent chapters of his life, or, more likely, he got over it and learnt from it. Certainly his faith was tested further later and he never waivered in those tests. He became a man of faith celebrated as such in the New Testament – Romans 4 and Hebrews 11: 8-19.
I believe the lesson to be learnt from this is to get closer to God. God knows your real prayer. Let Him hear it directly from you. Don’t beat around the bush with God.
You, the reader, could argue that this is not a great example of God seeming to change his mind. So we will look at a better example next time with Moses.
